Let \(R\) be the relation on \(\{1,2,3,4\}\) that is given by
\begin{equation*}
R = \{(1,1), (1,2),(2,1),(2,2),(3,3),(4,4)\}.
\end{equation*}
Then \(R\) is reflexive since \((1,1)\text{,}\) \((2,2)\text{,}\) \((3,3)\text{,}\) and \((4,4)\) are all in \(R\text{.}\) It is symmetric because whenever \((a,b)\) is in \(R\text{,}\) we have \((b,a)\) is in \(R\text{.}\) It is transitive since if \((a,b)\) is in \(R\) and \((b,c)\) is in \(R\text{,}\) then \((a,c)\) is in \(R\text{.}\) It is not antisymmetric since \((1,2)\) is in \(R\) and \((2,1)\) is in \(R\text{,}\) but \(1 \neq 2\text{.}\)